By Bishop Sally Dyck
U.S. Sen. Barack Obama's recent speech on race in
But I also wonder if the example of talking about a sensitive and often divisive topic might have something to teach us as we gather for the United Methodist General Conference. Over the last year, I have worked to promote the practice of "holy conferencing" at General Conference. I think that it's been difficult for some of us to imagine just what holy conferencing would really look like in the give-and-take at General Conference.
One thing that holy conferencing is not is the avoidance or suppression of conversation about sensitive and divisive issues. Obama addressed an issue that most of
As I have discussed holy conferencing with others over the last year, I have sensed that some have interpreted holy conferencing to mean "making nice" and therefore not talking about sensitive and potentially divisive issues. Nothing could be further from the way in which I imagine holy conferencing to work. If we're going to avoid difficult topics, we're really not holy conferencing. Avoiding crucial conversation is just as destructive as conversation laden with inflammatory language. We must speak about our own convictions honestly.
This commentary is not intended to recommend a candidate for office, but rather to suggest a way of talking about difficult issues. Obama carefully weighed his words before speaking them. While denouncing the "inflammatory" rhetoric of his pastor, the Rev. Jeremiah Wright, he never resorted to inflammatory language about anyone -- Wright, whites, blacks, his own family members or his political opposition. He was gracious because all of the above-mentioned are in some way a part of who he is by water or blood, faith or family.
He doesn't have the luxury of cutting any of them off, because to do so is to cut off something of himself and his heritage. He is one with them and they are one with him; for better or for worse. Isn't that what the body of Christ is like?
It's an interesting coincidence that Wright's first name is Jeremiah. His style of confronting injustice undeniably lives up to some of the Hebrew prophet's style of confronting the principalities and powers of his day. We can argue that when there is injustice or immorality, such styles are in order. Jesus turned over the tables in the temple when he found injustice being perpetrated.
The point the senator was making is that it is time for the
Obama didn't just promote his own self-interest (winning the Democratic nomination) but raised a long-overdue conversation to a higher plane. That's why it was compared the next day in The New York Times by writer Janny Scott as one of the most significant speeches on race in
At General Conference, there will be some whose preferred way prevails and others whose way doesn't prevail. Some people will feel like winners and others like losers. Yet how we talk about each other and to each other makes a big difference in how we live with each other. For us in the church, how we talk to and about each other affects our witness to the power of Christ in our world.
Lifting the conversation
Repeatedly I have heard young people in our country as well as in our church say that they desire another way of solving problems and talking about deeply held beliefs.
It was the Young People's Assembly in
As we approach General Conference, we should make Bishop Rueben Job's book Three Simple Rules our guide as we figure out what holy conferencing looks like for us. He says:
"I must seek what is best for those whose position and condition may be far different than my vision for them. It will mean that I will seek to heal the wounds of my sisters and brothers, no matter if their social position, economic condition, educational achievement, or lifestyle is radically different from mine. It will mean that the words and acts that wound and divide will be changed to words and acts that heal and bring together. It will mean that movements that seek to divide and conquer will become movements that seek to unite and empower all. It will mean that the common good will be my first thought and what is good for me will become a secondary thought."
Will we as The United Methodist Church demonstrate holy conferencing as well as or better than a politician on the campaign trail?
Dyck is episcopal leader of The